feat(stability): default-on memory-pressure protection (earlyoom)

modules/nixos/oom.nix — running out of memory now kills the offending
process (with a desktop notification via systembus-notify) instead of
freezing the desktop for minutes until the kernel OOM killer fires.

earlyoom over systemd-oomd, deliberately: oomd kills whole cgroups,
and a Hyprland session runs as ONE scope (nothing here spawns per-app
systemd scopes, unlike GNOME) — under pressure oomd would take out the
entire desktop to save it. earlyoom kills the single largest process
before the thrash point. nixpkgs default-enables oomd in an inert
state (no slices monitored); it is disabled outright so there is one
owner. Session plumbing is --avoid-listed (unanchored — NixOS wrappers
rename comm to .foo-wrapped); no --prefer tuning, largest-RSS
selection already finds the hog. All mkDefault; opt out with
services.earlyoom.enable = false (README note added).

Verified: V0 (flake check) + V2 — new checks.oom-protection
runNixOSTest, executed: a chunked allocator (686 MB peak, 1 GB VM) is
SIGTERM'd by earlyoom in 0.1 s, a bystander unit survives (the
process-level granularity the module exists for), and systemd-oomd is
asserted inactive. 25 s runtime.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

modules/nixos/default.nix

@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ let
   '';
 in
 {
-  imports = [ ./options.nix ./plymouth.nix ./file-manager.nix ./power.nix ./services.nix ./hardware.nix ./timezone.nix ];
+  imports = [ ./options.nix ./plymouth.nix ./file-manager.nix ./power.nix ./services.nix ./hardware.nix ./timezone.nix ./oom.nix ];
 
   config = {
     # Distro branding. distroName flows into /etc/os-release PRETTY_NAME,